There are three types of desire. 1/ A strong desire becomes a goal. It is a desire to fulfill. At this time, the energy of desire fades and turns to action. 2/ desire without action. All energy is spent on waiting and is wasted, and it brings with it various inconveniences. 3/The most dangerous desire. Overemphasis on what you want. Desires of this type: "if I get what I want, I will be better off" "if I don't do this, my life will be meaningless" "if I do this, I will show myself to others" "if I get this, everything will be fine" etc. They drain human energy. Therefore, it is necessary to adhere to the principle of the desire to unite, and without considering the importance, the desire made into a pure goal is achieved. Giving too much importance to people, happenings and events leads to risk. This is also an example of the balance of power, a law that we do not know. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to actions by setting limits and ceilings on importance. To achieve what you want, it should be only a pure desire without any importance. When you approach things in a normal way without deifying them, you get rid of obstacles and fulfillment of desires. Your desire should be normal, like you are going to a newsstand to buy a newspaper. And don't think about what you don't want as much as possible. The more you dislike and hate something unpleasant, the more likely it is to be repeated, and this is also related to the emotional balance and giving too much importance to it.
So it's good that we have the opportunity to train our inner consciousness to take things in jest or even ignore them.