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2023-01-01T15:19:00.000Z

"Questions under the pillow" for your child

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by Baigalmaa
Sugar.mn staff
"Questions under the pillow" for your child
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It is believed that asking your child to go to bed before going to bed and choosing a few questions from the following questions will make you understand the daily busyness of modern family relationships, and will lead to a closer and closer relationship with your child. These questions are called "questions under the pillow" and they help to start a conversation with your child and learn a lot about your child.

- What does my son or daughter like to dream about?
- Who is your favorite hero?
- If you change yourself, what will you change?
- What can you be proud of?
- Who is the best person around? Why?
- What quality of your friend do you like the most?
- What do you most want to learn to do?
- If you were an animal, what kind of animal would you be?
- If you were to keep one thing from all your things, what would it be?
- What kind of person is considered successful? Why?
- When do adults think they don't understand?
-If you had the opportunity to spend 48 hours anywhere in the world, where would you go?
- What are you happy about in life? Who is more happy?
- If you could change with anyone in the world, who would you change with?
- What can you do better than what you did yesterday?
-Which would you choose between being able to read minds and being able to fly?
- Kindergarten, school, anywhere, who do you want to meet every day?
- If you could cook your own lunch, what would you cook?
- Who is the friendliest of your friends?
- Who did you spend the most time with today?
- What is your favorite game?
- Who makes you laugh the most? How do you laugh?
- If you were to play your favorite movie or cartoon character, which character would you choose?
- In your family, with whom do you have the most fun?
Organize questions that expect a positive answer, etc., and yourself. Asking these questions in your own words and in an age-appropriate manner will give your child a good chance to understand. When asking a question, don't push or demand an answer. If you can't answer, move on to the next question and you can't be buried with too many questions. Also, make it a point to have a conversation around the answers. Don't worry if you don't answer the question completely. Before going to sleep, your child will think and imagine, and perhaps answer in his dreams, and his mind will expand. Then, when you ask again and again, the child will be happy together with an answer that conveys your love and affection, enriched with your own beautiful thoughts.

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