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2022-12-08T14:17:00.000Z

Do not say "don't", "can't" words to children

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by Baigalmaa
Sugar.mn staff
Do not say "don't", "can't" words to children
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We always tell our children "don't", "don't", "don't" and "don't" without explaining why they shouldn't touch and why they shouldn't.

Children also violate these words as if on purpose, and we often have the attitude of "I told you first." It is said that the child's mentality accepts only those forbidden actions from the forbidden words such as "don't touch", "don't climb", "don't drink" and take them as ideas. For example: when you say "don't" put your head through the railing of the balcony, a child who didn't think to put his head there, because he is at the stage of knowing and feeling everything, he wants to do it and tries to do it. Therefore, you should not say forbidden words to make the child wary of something or to make him feel dangerous. To summarize these forbidden words: if an ants say "don't pass", this word is taken together with the word "around the ants", while the child, because he does not know the consequences, first stands in front of the ants, and then goes through them. Avoid using taboo words as much as possible: instead of saying "don't step through the mud", saying "go around the mud, your shoes will get wet" teaches people not to go through the mud, and develops the ability to understand and adapt.
Do not forget that this world is completely new and unfamiliar for children. And treat your child without forgetting that you were a child yourself. You also have fun cases of breaking taboos.

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