11-10-1958

Dear Tom, I will take your letter and write the answer with your mother. You wrote about your love. Needless to say, this is the best feeling for everyone. But I wanted to write that there are different types of love. There is self-importance, selfish, rigid, crazy, inferior love. This love makes a person sick and weak. On the other hand, the love that reveals one's best qualities, kindness, care, appreciation and respect for one's loved ones, frees one's heart, makes one strong, brave, kind, and even wiser. When you write this to me, maybe ask for my advice. What can I say? Love is a boundless and incomparable pleasure of the soul, a breath-taking thrill, a celebration filled only with a feeling of joy, a feeling of gratitude that everything looks good. Your beloved girl, the most beautiful, incomparable. It is necessary to behave and change yourself according to this feeling. It is the most difficult for a person who is in love to express this feeling. Girls, a country that has the talent to feel even the small feelings you address to them. That's why your crush likes to hear all your feelings. Some of your excitement and feelings may not be reciprocated for some reason. But because of this, love should not lose its value and meaning. I understand all your feelings. Because I love your mother madly. I'm glad you found the beautiful thing called love. We will be happy to host Susan. At this time, your mother's role is more important. Your mother also knows a lot about love, and I think she'll be more helpful than I am. Don't be afraid to lose. What happens happens because it happens. Most importantly, don't rush. Good things never go away.

Love you. The father.