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2023-04-27T06:54:00.000Z

Family Destroyer "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse"

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by Baigalmaa
Sugar.mn staff
Family Destroyer "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse"
Family disputes are common in any family, but it is up to us whether we will turn them into a constant dispute filled with complaints and frustrations, or a step towards understanding and opening up to each other. It is important to be careful about the mistakes that are made during arguments, and how these should be effective without further bad consequences, and the 4 behaviors that escalate the argument and have consequences that lead to divorce.

1. Overcriticism. "I'm tired of your situation", "Ish, get rid of it", etc. Compare with others. "Look at a person's ...", "You can never be like him", "You are the same", these words have very harmful consequences. Words that keep on gathering and have the power to tear the world apart.
2. Be offensive. Insulting each other by awkwardly moving your eyes and mouth, "Can you do anything?", "What can you do?"
3. Self-defense, words like "You're stupid", "Look at yourself", "It's all because of you", "It's your fault", deny your own responsibility, destroy the ability to accept responsibility and ask for forgiveness.
4. Climb like an "ice wall". There is nothing like a cold face and silence to destroy a shared life. There is no love that can endure such a situation for long.
Family psychologists refer to these behaviors as the "4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse." Equating it to the destruction of the world will make one think. Therefore, it is necessary to learn to argue correctly.

Here is a funny story about a family dispute.
- I told my husband to take my things and leave, but the other one brought the suitcase and started trying to stuff my son and I into the suitcase, and then we reconciled.
Why not search for ideas like these? Really? If you have any cute stories, please share them!

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