Behind the word "can't" are hidden the words "don't want", "don't know" and "afraid". Psychologists believe that this word is widely used in order not to show that one does not want to do something for others, to hide one's ignorance of the thing, to hide one's fear of not being able to do it. Also, it is used when there is no action to be taken in front of a certain situation or event, and the power to influence the situation is exhausted, and one can only wait for that thing to "explode and shake".
On the other hand, the word "don't want" provides a person with the right to choose to do what he likes, but its frequent use can lead to a state of inactivity and inactivity. Notice that these words, step by step, poison life.

Replace these words with the words “can” and “want” if:
1. He can be very honest with himself and others.
2. People are able to take matters into their own hands.
3. It becomes possible to show the ability and activity to do what is needed.