- Leave the thought of living for your child. Please. Look at the meaning of life and the meaning of parenthood in a different way. Pay more attention to empowering our little boys and girls to survive in this world. Don't let them be a sacrifice or a hostage for the "good deeds" you do for them. For children, the meaning of our lives is very difficult for them. Let's stop acting like we're going to stuff ourselves into a room that will one day run out of air to breathe. At first, it is natural that they should live like this, but later, they begin to be suffocated by our love and care. But, let me remind you to love and take care of your spouse. When your children grow up, your spouse will stay by your side. Just make sure that this love for each other, this relationship becomes a story for your children, when you have a family and children. Give your child the opportunity to breathe and live independently. In such cases, they can grow, develop and make choices. By caring too much, one becomes weak and incapable of self-reliance. Our role as parents is to be like a flower gardener who waters them on time, does not block the sun, and protects them from harm. In the future, my child will live by himself, showing off all the goodness given by God, like a flower.