Once, when a monk saw the woman crying, he approached with compassion and asked why she was crying. The old woman told her everything, and the monk said to her, "There is no other way but to change your mind. No one can control the weather. On a sunny day, don't think about the rain umbrella, but think about your daughter who makes pasta and be happy that the pasta is drying well, but on a rainy day, be happy that your eldest daughter's rain umbrella is selling well.'' It is said that when Emen accepted the advice and began to fulfill it, their lives changed and became filled with joy.
Doesn't anyone need this example that shows that when a situation cannot be changed or changed, instead of trying to change it, when you change your thoughts and attitudes, everything becomes happy? "As soon as you look at something differently, life changes its direction," the ancient sages taught.