As soon as the desired thing is fulfilled, a new need arises and the value of the desired thing falls, although it is human nature, the world instructs us to learn something called gratitude in order to lead a successful life and not to lose success and good fortune. In both cases, a person pushes his luck away from himself, because he feels that happiness is more than he wants, because he does not believe it, and because of his low self-esteem, he asks, "Is it really true?" Doubts, "do I have the right to get it" and "it's too much" thoughts, I can't make it my own. On the other hand, in the second case, it is pushed by rejecting without appreciating what you have received, not thinking of it as something that exists, and forgetting what you wanted. These situations are familiar problems for many people. People should be grateful for what they have received, and this gratitude manifests itself in optimism, joy, love, and a positive attitude towards the environment. Because people don't know this, because they don't appreciate it, they are left with good memories of the times they were lucky and successful, and are unable to build a stable life.